Trinity.Melinda.Adams: Happy 8th Birthday Trinity!!!

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In honor of our precious daughter, since her passing, we do the "Angel Trinity Christmas" every December. Whether it's money donations or toy donations, we give 100% of the donations made to the precious children in the hospital. We will continue this tradition in hopes that Trinity's spirit of giving will touch sick kids and people in the community every year.

To participate in the "Angel Trinity Christmas", please email us at adamsfamily97@yahoo.com and we will add you to the updates. Thank you for keeping Trinity alive and remembered in your heart, especially when it comes to participating in this special tradition.

Love always,
Barrett and Melinda Adams
Proud parents to Angel Trinity

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Happy 8th Birthday Trinity!!!

We went to Gilroy to visit our precious baby girl on her 8th birthday

Covered with balloons...

Surrounded by flowers...

New toys....

A homeade "Trinity" book...

Friends visited Trinity...

Trinity's grandparents came to see her...

Trinity's, Uncle Dean stopped by...

We ate lunch together...

Gifts were sent in the mail for Trin's grave...

HAPPY 8TH BIRTHDAY & 3RD HEAVEN BIRTHDAY TRINITY MELINDA ADAMS!!!!

WE LOVE YOU FOREVER AND MISS YOU EVERY DAY PRECIOUS BABY GIRL!!!!

6 comments:

Anne HoldawayFebruary 14, 2010 at 10:03 AM
Such a sweet day with various family members!! Trin would have wanted all that sweetness!! It was perfect!! Her gravesite was just so beautiful!! Grateful for Tankersley's and their adorable addition of balloons and Birthday letter!! How special!! The whole site just looks so beautiful and all those who see it will know that Trinity Melinda Adams is soooooooooooo loved!! And will be loved forever!! Grammy Holdaway
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D-dawgFebruary 14, 2010 at 1:45 PM
What a beautiful birthday celebration for a beautiful girl. I love all of the decorations... those wooden letters spelling her name are so cute. Hope it was a good day for you guys.
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Megan RobertsFebruary 14, 2010 at 2:27 PM
Wow! I am struck at all the love trinity has received for her birthday! I love keeping her spirit alive!
I love you sister! I love the wooden letters the most!
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Ryan n HeidiFebruary 14, 2010 at 5:02 PM
Sweet baby girl! Trinity's site looked precious and happy....she is smiling on you!
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chipandsalsaFebruary 15, 2010 at 7:15 AM
Hey BuuuuuDeeeeee!!!!!!! WE miss you soooo sooo soo much! Uncle Wee Chee, Sissela, Enya and Eli all love you so much and just miss that wonderful laugh and amazing smile! Enya still leans into my ear at times and wishes you were still here! We love you and Happy Birthday Angel!! Love you!!!
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Please write to:February 15, 2010 at 10:30 AM
Your site is so inspiring. I can't imagine how happy she would have been so see that beautiful outpouring of love in her direction. We love you all! The Shattucks
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Trinity's Story

Trinity was born at Stanford Children's Hospital (LPCH) with a severe heart defect called Hypo-plastic Left Heart Syndrome (HLHS). This heart defect is fatal if it is not corrected by a 3-stage surgery process or a heart transplant. We chose the 3-stage surgery in hope for Trinity to survive.

At 36 hours old, Trinity was wheeled into the O.R. for her 1st open heart surgery. Right before surgery, we found out from Trinity's surgeon, Dr. Frank Hanley, that Trinity's small birth size changed her previously better odds of 80% chance, to a 20% chance of survival.

At 1 week old, Trinity went into Cardiac arrest. Dr. Pirooz and Dr. Pettigrew massaged her heart for close to 4 hours before she was put on the ECMO bypass machine (which lived for her for 5 days).

After 3 open heart surgeries, 3 cardiac arrests, numerous infections, numerous lung collapse episodes, 8 bronchoscopey's, 3 cardiac cathiderizations, 72 hour kidney failure, 3 failed attempts of getting her off the ventilator, tracheostomey surgery, gastric tube surgery, and 7 long emotional months of hard dedicated work from the staff in the hospital, Trinity was discharged on Sept. 9, 2002 and brought home for the first time in her short life. After being home for about 4 months, Dec. 31, 2002 Trinity went back into the PICU for 2 months fighting phenomnia. She was transfered to Children's Recovery Center (CRC) on March 4, 2003.

Sept. 9 2003, being 19 months old Trinity's lungs were strong enough to come off the ventilator. After having a trach for 22 months, May 6, 2004 Trinity's trach was taken out. After 14 months of living at CRC, Trinity was dischraged and brought home on Friday, May 14, 2004...exactly 27 month and 1 day old, and the "Healthiest" she's ever been.

As of June 2002, Trinity was the smallest surviving HLHS child that Dr. Hanley had ever done. In fact, he did not know of a smaller surviving HLHS child in the world. Trinity spent 3 1/2 years at home with us and just thrived. Her little life was filled with so much happiness and love.

At 5 1/2 years old, Trinity went through her 4th open heart surgery on Thursday August 30, 2007 at LPCH. Being unable to recover from open heart surgery, our precious Trinity Melinda Adams passed away on Sunday Sept. 16, 2007. Our hearts are broken and tears continue to fall. We are honored and saddened to have our precious daughter, Trinity Melinda Adams, be our beautiful guardian angel. Trinity we love you dearly, we miss you so much, and we will be re-united as we are a family Together Forever!