Trinity.Melinda.Adams: Happy 9th Birthday Angel Trinity

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In honor of our precious daughter, since her passing, we do the "Angel Trinity Christmas" every December. Whether it's money donations or toy donations, we give 100% of the donations made to the precious children in the hospital. We will continue this tradition in hopes that Trinity's spirit of giving will touch sick kids and people in the community every year.

To participate in the "Angel Trinity Christmas", please email us at adamsfamily97@yahoo.com and we will add you to the updates. Thank you for keeping Trinity alive and remembered in your heart, especially when it comes to participating in this special tradition.

Love always,
Barrett and Melinda Adams
Proud parents to Angel Trinity

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Happy 9th Birthday Angel Trinity

9 years ago on February 13, 2002, I gave birth to Trinity Melinda Adams...our first and only child. Here's a picture of Trinity just a few hours old...weighing 4pounds, (1.8 Kilos) in the NICU and getting ready for her first open heart surgery at LPCH-Stanford.

Our Sweet Baby Trinity, celebrates her first birthday in the CVICU at LPCH-Stanford...February 2003

February 2004 ~ Trinity Melinda Adams is 2 years old ~ celebrating her 2nd birthday at the Children's Recovery Center in Campbell

February 2005 ~ Trinity celebrated her first birthday at home (no more hospitals!)

February 2006 ~ Celebrating Trinity's 4th birthday at Grammy & Grampa's house (aka "Wammy n Papa")

February 2007 ~ Celebrating Trinity's 5th Birthday at Disneyland...her last birthday on Earth

Today we celebrate Trinity's 9th birthday, her 4th birthday in Heaven.

Family and a few close friends joined us at the cemetary to sing "Happy Birthday" to Trinity.

Trinity's Grave, covered in Balloons and Flowers

Sending off Balloons to Trinity...filled with hugs and kisses

I miss my baby girl so much today! I wonder how she would look, talk, and act at 9 years old. I miss her kisses, I miss her hugs, I miss her voice, I miss her laughter, I miss taking care of her.

WE MISS YOU TRINITY! HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY GIRL!!! WE LOVE YOU FOREVER!!!

Trinity Melinda Adams ~ February 13, 2011

Resting in Peace at 9 years old

1 comment:

Lisa and RustinFebruary 16, 2011 at 5:44 PM
Oh Mindy!! I love ya!
I cannot believe it's been four years!!!
It's seem like we were JUST playing in your pool last on the 4th of July!

Love you guys!!
Miss that sweet sweet girl!!
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Trinity's Story

Trinity was born at Stanford Children's Hospital (LPCH) with a severe heart defect called Hypo-plastic Left Heart Syndrome (HLHS). This heart defect is fatal if it is not corrected by a 3-stage surgery process or a heart transplant. We chose the 3-stage surgery in hope for Trinity to survive.

At 36 hours old, Trinity was wheeled into the O.R. for her 1st open heart surgery. Right before surgery, we found out from Trinity's surgeon, Dr. Frank Hanley, that Trinity's small birth size changed her previously better odds of 80% chance, to a 20% chance of survival.

At 1 week old, Trinity went into Cardiac arrest. Dr. Pirooz and Dr. Pettigrew massaged her heart for close to 4 hours before she was put on the ECMO bypass machine (which lived for her for 5 days).

After 3 open heart surgeries, 3 cardiac arrests, numerous infections, numerous lung collapse episodes, 8 bronchoscopey's, 3 cardiac cathiderizations, 72 hour kidney failure, 3 failed attempts of getting her off the ventilator, tracheostomey surgery, gastric tube surgery, and 7 long emotional months of hard dedicated work from the staff in the hospital, Trinity was discharged on Sept. 9, 2002 and brought home for the first time in her short life. After being home for about 4 months, Dec. 31, 2002 Trinity went back into the PICU for 2 months fighting phenomnia. She was transfered to Children's Recovery Center (CRC) on March 4, 2003.

Sept. 9 2003, being 19 months old Trinity's lungs were strong enough to come off the ventilator. After having a trach for 22 months, May 6, 2004 Trinity's trach was taken out. After 14 months of living at CRC, Trinity was dischraged and brought home on Friday, May 14, 2004...exactly 27 month and 1 day old, and the "Healthiest" she's ever been.

As of June 2002, Trinity was the smallest surviving HLHS child that Dr. Hanley had ever done. In fact, he did not know of a smaller surviving HLHS child in the world. Trinity spent 3 1/2 years at home with us and just thrived. Her little life was filled with so much happiness and love.

At 5 1/2 years old, Trinity went through her 4th open heart surgery on Thursday August 30, 2007 at LPCH. Being unable to recover from open heart surgery, our precious Trinity Melinda Adams passed away on Sunday Sept. 16, 2007. Our hearts are broken and tears continue to fall. We are honored and saddened to have our precious daughter, Trinity Melinda Adams, be our beautiful guardian angel. Trinity we love you dearly, we miss you so much, and we will be re-united as we are a family Together Forever!